Our culture promotes multitasking as a virtue, yet we see time and again, it does not produce the best outcome (
Stanford Report, 2009). In fact, living habitually in this fashion trains us to miss what is important. In areas where we multitask, over the long-term, we fail to meet the goals that are meaningful. For example, if we are distracted from important relationships, the depth of our love does not come to fruition (
P. Mango, 2001). Most assuredly, our children miss opportunities to know how much they mean to us (
S. Sells, 2008). Similarly, when we divide our attention, it is impossible to sincerely watch for our Lord and understand from scripture, fellowship and prayer all there is to learn (
EWTN: Global Catholic Network).
As parents, the call to be equipped to teach our children (
Catechism) has long lasting implications. Yet, the significance of our role as guides for our children can only come from a heart that is still (
S. Chapman, 2007), attentive and self-reflective to identify the path to better parenting and fellowship with Christ.
Our Lord's message is simple: "Jesus said to his disciples: 'Be watchful! Be alert! You do not know when the time will come'" (
Mark 13:33). In his message, I hear:
Seek after the Lord. Pay attention. Love deeply. Know and teach your children, for there will come a time when I will call you to myself. The gift you leave for family and friends, is a witness to the hope that is within (1 Peter 3:15).
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